Monday, November 21, 2016

normalizing rape and racism with jokes

Hey everyone

So 2016 has obviously sucked. Badly. And there's a few things I want to say that have been on my mind since the election and afterwards.

Some of you know I was a big Beastie Boys fan back in the day, and I was incredibly saddened by the death of Adam Yauch. So you can imagine how upsetting it was to hear that Donald Trump supporters had vandalized his memorial with "Go Trump" and swastikas. Adam Yauch was Jewish, and a very spiritual man who cared about social justice.

And tonight Neo Nazis are doing the Nazi salute and yelling "Heil Trump" at their official gatherings.

We now have as a president elect, a man who was bragging about grabbing women by the pussy, and walked in on teenage girls in their dressing room. At his last rally, he had Ted Nugent up there with him, a man who wrote a song about raping a 13 year old girl. And Trump himself was accused of raping a 13 year old girl, but the girl got too many death threats and dropped her charges.

How did we get here? It's not like America suddenly turned into a bunch of racists, nazis and people thinking rape is okay. Those people were always there. Many people are saying "but now they have a voice".

But this all brings me back to the exact reason that this and other blogs were started, over 9 years ago, and that was because one band who always said "We hate racists and sexists and bigots", completely changed their tune and started behaving racist, sexist, and bigoted because they hooked up with Mindless Self Indulgence. I talked about this once before, it is called "Hipster racism" and "hipster sexism". When you are pretending that you're above racism and sexism and bigotry, but you are still writing songs called "F*ggot" under the guise of irony.

The people who put Trump into office always had a voice, and part of that voice, and part of the reason people are waving off these horrendous things, is because they are NORMALIZED in our society. They are thought of as funny for some people.

And why is that? "Ironic hipster racism" and rape jokes are a big part of the problem. White people who think it's "not fair" that white people aren't allowed to use the N word. White people who are "ironically" doing nazi salutes because it makes them seem "edgy." (Again MSI but those videos have been taken down.)

And obviously, adult men making songs about "Five Year Old Panty Shot" and lyrics like "cause my momma said to rape the very best one".

Obviously they are not the only band doing things like this, or profiting off using slurs in a "funny way" and making jokes about child rape. But they ARE the band that got this blog started so it all comes back to square one.

Well thanks, everyone who thought those "jokes" were funny. Because now they are real, and this is actually happening in America. We should not be surprised.

Usually I end by saying that I hope everyone is having a good year or will have a good year. But nothing good came out of this year at all so all I will say is that I sincerely hope we all survive, and that we will all maybe learn something from this.

38 comments:

Anonymous said...

“All cruelty springs from weakness.” ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca

MissTottenham said...

As a UK citizen I can only look on and wish you guys in the states good luck in the near future, I have a feeling you're gonna need it.

Anonymous said...

Unfortunately so does the UK.

The age of trying to be "edgy" or outrageous is over. What's happening in reality around the world is far more shocking than most people can conceive.

More than ever we need to support each other, and look after this planet.

MissTottenham said...

Too true Anon, too true.

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Anonymous said...

We were idealistic, as you are when you're really young. We thought we could change things through plur and it would flow through.

We need a similar philosophy more than ever now.

MissTottenham said...

Happy Christmas everyone xxx

Anonymous said...

Its actually Christmas day where I am.

It's going to be really really hot here, and we are getting prepared for a huge lunch with over 50 people near some water!

Merry Christmas to everybody and wishing for a very safe and stable 2017.

MissTottenham said...

Wow Anon on the other side of the world. I hope you enjoyed your scorching hot Christmas day and had a great lunch by the water.

I'm getting in early to wish you all a wonderful New Year.

xxxxx

Anonymous said...

Hope you had a good Christmas too!

Yes, it was a very hot day but a great time to reconnect with family and friends especially the ones that now live overseas. One of my closest friends who now resides in the US, came back with her husband and his family. Apart from the stifling heat, they enjoyed their very different Christmas. As did my European and Japanese friends.

As we head into 2017, my wish for the New Year is that we realize that we are only on this incredible planet for a short time, and there are so many wonderous things around us that we are privileged to share, and are responsible to maintain for future generations.

MissTottenham said...

Hi Anon, that is indeed a lovely wish for 2017. I hope so too.

I'm so glad you enjoyed Christmas in the heat. I had a great Christmas with my family and my beautiful little niece (picture on my blog). We have a lovely family and my sister's husband's parents came to dinner too, they are wonderful people.

Unfortunately on Jan 4th, my Aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer. She is not a smoker and the Dr says the prognosis is good. It is not fast growing and sounds very much like the one my mum (her sister) had, and she's fine now.

Please send you well wishes our way.

I hope 2017 is a happy and healthy one for everyone xxx

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Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry about Haku Kapunua.

Hope that your little boy is doing good.

MissTottenham said...

Hear, hear Anon. Poor little boy must be heartbroken, as must you all K sweetie. I'm thinking of you and your sad loss. Love and hugs coming your way sweetie.

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MissTottenham said...

If anyone is here,

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!!

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Anonymous said...

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Are you watching BBC Earth "The Planets" which just started screening narrated by Professor Brian Cox?

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