MRC broke up. Good riddance to bad garbage.
But I really doubt that we'll stop hearing their self involved, sexist and racist tweets. Usually when someone in the spotlight says some sexist or racist thing, they get called out and they eventually apologize. Sometimes they are sincere and sometimes they're just catering to the masses to get the media and fans to stop harping on them. When you think of people like Mel Gibson and Michael Richards, they apologized. But do you really believe them? I don't think those people actually learned a lesson.
Did MCR learn a lesson? Definitely not. Frank Iero using the N word in Twitter, then telling people they were "imbeciles" when they told him that wasn't cool. Gerard saying vile and violent things to and about women on his Twitter and then getting his fan sheep to harass those women, with gender based slurs. And the gender based slurs he used to degrade women on Twitter and on stage. Frank Iero's abortion jokes. Ray Toro saying that women shouldn't be allowed to use public toilets. The list goes on.
These comments were never addressed. MCR breaks up and leaves this as their legacy to those of us who know better. They were never forced to apologize, because, I think, they were never famous enough in the media to garner a huge outcry.
And don't forget... MSI is still out there, spewing racist lyrics (and telling people it's okay for white people to do that, because it's "satire"), homophobic lyrics, and violently misogynistic lyrics, making jokes about sexual abuse of children... The two bands are exactly the same.
Yes, I am glad that MCR broke up, but they never apologized for their racism and misogyny. And they are still, sadly, the same exact racist, sexist people they were before they broke up.
BUT... at least they did break up! So go out and celebrate. :-)
With that out of the way I want to wish everyone a healthy and prosperous spring season, or whatever season it is where you live.
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Enrique night tooo-night!!!!
Incredible!
http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2013/may/07/antibiotics-cure-back-pain-patients
http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2013/may/07/back-pain-breakthrough-major-operations
Bill and Ted! Be excellent to each other! ^_^
I can be your hero, baby.
I can kiss away the pain.
all i neeEEED is the rhythm divine ♪
Prepare
Only one woman?
http://www.neatorama.com/2012/11/23/Heroes-of-Science-Action-Figures/
it's life Jim,
but not as we know it,
not as we know it,
not as we know it
it's life, Jim,
but not as we know it,
not as we know it, CAPTAIN ♩
Boldly going forward '
CAUSE WE CAN'T FIND REVERSE ♪
Och, if I give it any more she'll blow, Cap'n!
Red Alert Red Alert
Cumberbundelicious ^_^
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5cn4A5IZg1k&feature=youtu.be
ello dappy A-merican ka-nniggets!
Hiya guys, how are you?
Anonymous said...
Boldly going forward '
CAUSE WE CAN'T FIND REVERSE ♪
LOL Anon, I remember that song. Cheesy as hell hahaha!
Blimey K, just think of all the changes in your life in the time we've all been on these blogs. Quite the rollercoaster.
OMG, seriously. So much has changed, more than I could possibly imagine.
For a lot of us, too, I think.
Change is good.
6:27 we know raising children is expensive, most people who plan them are aware of this.
For all the expense and worry I wouldn't trade the experience for anything else in the world.
For a lot of us, too, I think.
Sure has :)
Did you read this Kapunua?
Just viewed it on Great D's stream.
http://jezebel.com/an-open-letter-to-white-male-comedians-497503334
Horrible example of a woman who was not prepared to be a mother.
http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2013/04/mother-regrets-having-children-braces-for-online-backlash/
“I felt completely detached from this alien being who had encroached upon my settled married life and who had changed it, irrevocably, for the worse.”
Dutton said that despite her indifference, she was not a "bad" mother, investing all of her time, energy and resources into caring for the two children.
But she still came to resent their neediness and the time spent doting on them that could have been used to “reflect, read and enjoy her own company.”
http://www.mamamia.com.au/parenting/having-children-was-a-mistake/
But there were provisos: if I was going to have children I knew absolutely – illogical as it may seem in view of my feelings – that I intended to raise them myself without any help from nannies or childminders.
This wasn’t a way of assuaging my guilt, because I felt none. It was simply that, having brought them into the world, I would do my best for them.
I cannot understand mothers who insist they want children – especially those who undergo years of fertility treatment – then race back to work at the earliest opportunity after giving birth, leaving the vital job of caring for them to strangers.
Yet I dreaded her dependence; resented the time she would consume, and that like parasites, both my children would continue to take from me and give nothing meaningful back in return.
An original 1949 copy of George Orwell's 1984 going for $2,000.00.
Wow!
I think it's normal to have conflicting feelings about children especially when you come from a position of control to not being in full control because children don't necessarily behave the way you would like them to behave or get sick and can be a challenge.
Being a parent is also a continual learning process. If you expect perfection, don't have them!
do doodoo
do doodoo
do
do
do
doo do do doodo
DOODOO do do do do ♪
words are healing
sweet anticipation
making spells as the shadows close in ♩
falls across
ALL OUR YES...TER...DAYS ♪
when you come from a position of control to not being in full control because children don't necessarily behave the way you would like them to behave or get sick
I agree. Becoming a first time mom is a huge adjustment.
You can't control a baby. They'll cry when they want to cry. They'll nurse when they're hungry and not because mom says it's time to eat. They'll sleep when they want to sleep and wake up when they want to wake up. When they're hungry, wet, sick, have a dirty diaper or just don't feel like sleeping. You're on their schedule for the first few years of their life. Then you're on their daycare and school schedule until they're trustworthy and old enough to stay home alone or you have a sitter to watch them after school.
It's not easy and things like daycare, school and afterschool care hours and illnesses are out of your control. You have to work around your child's schedule.
The way it's meant to be heard.
On vinyl!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0R_oL_73GY
so farrrrr away
so farrARRRR away
so farrrrr away
so farrARRR aWAY AYYY ♪
My baby Ben won a BAFTA! So happy. He was shaking during his acceptance speech, and said he was hoping one of the other people would win so he wouldn't have to say anything. So cute. Social awkwardness for the win. :D
Since you a virtually a mother Kapunua, I'm going to wish you a happy belated mother's day!
:)
Who's going to watch The '80's, The Decade that Made Us on National Geographic?
I can't wait to see it!!
I'll show you a place
high on a desert plain, where the streets have no name...
oh ahh ♪
Aw, Ben Whishaw, why u so cute? Awkwardness aside, he was adorable, I'm going to have to become a fangirl I think,
Are they ever going to show Richard II in the US?
No matter if some one searches for his required thing, so he/she
wishes to be available that in detail, so that thing is
maintained over here.
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Thank you! I actually got a Mother's Day gift from my Mom yesterday. :)
I was at the docs today though, and no action going on yet. Midwife said I could potentially still have another 3 weeks to wait. O_O
That would put me soooooo overdue; I hope it won't take that long!
And yes, when will The Hollow Crown be released in the US? I need to buy that!
Where is the fast forward to Friday button?
Are oranges named orange because they’re orange or is orange called orange because oranges are orange?
PBS will be airing The Hollow Crown beginning in September of this year and continuing through October:
The Hollow Crown – Richard II – September 20
The Hollow Crown – Henry IV, Part I – September 27
The Hollow Crown – Henry IV, Part II – October 4
The Hollow Crown – Henry V – October 11
I imagine the DVDs will be out before Christmas. :)
I don't live in the UK, so I couldn't watch the BAFTAs, but here is Ben's acceptance speech for Richard II.
Watch and fall in love. Poor little thing; he's more socially awkward than I was at thirteen. I don't think he's cut out for award shows and red carpets, and it's hard to imagine how anyone can be so talented on a stage and so humble in person. We don't grow actors like that in the states.
I admire her for this:
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/14/opinion/my-medical-choice.html?_r=1&
Ladies constantly do your health checks. Very, very important.
Angelina Jolie is talented actress and a great humanitarian . I think she gets a bad rep just because she's so beautiful. People forgave Liz Taylor for stealing Debbie Reynolds husband. Jennifer Anniston and her fans need to get over the fact that Brad fell out of love with her and in love with Angelina. A beautiful, smart, good, caring woman who wanted to have and raise a family with him. #teambrangelina
What are you talking about 11:25?
Despite her celebrity status she faced the problems many women face, and made her choices public to show woman can make choices.
It's not about team anything, it's about being pro-active about your health.
Breast and ovarian cancer is a very real problem for all woman, whether they have the gene or not, and risk increases with age and lifestyle.
I know of a couple of women in their thirties struck down with ovarian cancer, and at that age it's a complete shock. But the risk was the gene or either nil or late age pregnancy.
The new Daft Punk album is soooo 80's!
Love Instant Crush ft Julian Casablancas :)
Funky and soulful!!!
lose yourself to dance
come on come on come come on come on ♪
Love the analogue style quasi 80's garage/funk Daft Punk album.
lose yourself to dance
lose yourself to daance ♪
Some of the track remind me of the Escape from New York soundtrack.
Definitely 80's.
3:39, thank you! I can't believe it's taking so long to get to the states. Jeez, I watched it online last summer before I was even pregnant. Seems like forever ago!
You're welcome, Kapunua!
It does seem like forever ago. I miss the Shakespeare discussions here and on tumblr that came from that series. It was the best Shakespeare ever done for the small screen, and better than many full feature films, in my opinion. I was so impressed by all of the performances. Both Ben and Rory Kinnear were fantastic in Richard II.
You must be getting really close to your due date. Any news on that front? Please keep us posted. It's all so exciting. :D
i know you don't get chance to take a break this often
i know your life is speeding and it isn't stopping
you take my shirt and just go ahead and wipe up all the
sweat
sweat
SWEAT ♪
http://lightbox.time.com/2013/05/08/anarchy-attitude-and-outrage-when-punk-was-young-and-dangerous/#1
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-17740690
I hope this works.
For Hiddles fans - with a dark, long haired wig, again. But nothing like Loki.
Urk. It didn't work. >_<
Please click on links top left corner gif.
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3:56, I agree, and I LOVED Rory Kinnear in that. Really looking forward to watching the whole thing again.
Hmm, today I just feel a little achey and "off." I would like to hold out till after the 20th but not much longer after that, thanks! ^_^
Kapunua, sounds like things might be on the move! I had the achey and off feeling the day before labour started.
Then again you just may be achey and off. :)
Is the 20th a special day for you? It's peculiar but every person I've ever met born around this time of May has always been exceptionally talented in one area. And if that weren't enough, really good looking to boot. He's going to be a very special little boy. :)
I remember starting to feel a bit strange and not myself the week before I had my baby.
I woke up one morning, went to the bathroom and noticed I lost my show and some blood. My man freaked out and called the hospital, who told us not to worry until either my waters broke or started having continuous contractions.
baby today. :) pics tomorrow if i have time.
also, labor blows.
OMG Kapunua!! Really?!
I'm so excited and pleased for you!! Lots and lots of love, and hugs, to you both. :)
xoxox
And, yes, labour really is a pain in the butt!
Yep. Labor sucks donkey dick. Hope it wasn't too bad.
BABY!!! So exciting. I hope you and the little one are doing well. :D :D :D
You had the baby Kapunua???
Oh my goodness, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
And yeah labour is yuk :/, but it's all over now :)
Sending lots of love to you and your son.
http://yourdoctorsorders.com/2013/05/angelina-jolies-decision-do-i-need-to-be-tested/
Hiya guys, how are you all?
Anonymous said...
Who's going to watch The '80's, The Decade that Made Us on National Geographic?
I can't wait to see it!!
I wish I had that channel Anon, I'm on a total 80's vibe at the mo.
Wow K, I hope you have ickle baby by now and that labour wasn't SOOOOOOOO bad.
I was born by caesarean, mum says that " I wasn't coming out for no bugger" She says that I've always been awkward since day one. I say start as you mean to go on.
It's important for women to be checked and tested for cervical and ovarian cancer as well as breast cancer.
http://www.ehow.com/about_5057630_signs-cervical-ovarian-cancer.html
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/259546.php
"Pioneering biophotonics technology developed in the US can detect nanoscale changes in cells from the cervix and uterus that may indicate early stage ovarian cancer, according to a study published this month in the International Journal of Cancer."
Your baby boy is beautiful, Kapunua. Congratulations. :D
Kapunua he is gorgeous!!!!!
I am so happy for you :)
Congrats to you, Jules. I know your little boy will change the world for you (and fingers crossed, the rest of us). Take good care of yourself and the little one. Health and happiness to you both.
Anyone into cycling?
The ciro d'Italia is on, and it's interesting to watch as you see as the towns they cycle through.
http://theweek.com/article/index/244359/why-facebook-makes-breaking-up-even-worse
Watching Eurovision.
Lol.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/video/2013/may/17/teresa-forcades-radical-catalan-nun-video
Hmmm. Looks like some people have packed off their grey matter off to a tropical island somewhere...
How is the new mummy going?
Sending my best wishes to you and baby K.
So tragic. Those people are going to need a lot of help and support in rebuilding their lives.
http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/lookout/tornado-oklahoma-city-moore-205548879.html
http://news.yahoo.com/lightbox/tornadoes-pound-plains-midwest-slideshow/woman-carries-her-child-field-near-collapsed-plaza-photo-230633711.html
http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/2013/05/20/see-mercury-venus-and-jupiter-in-tightest-night-sky-cluster-until-2026/
Paul and Emma. Commit Me Already.
cuckoo cuckoo ^_~
LOL
http://omg.yahoo.com/video/scariest-ex-girlfriend-tat-cover-150057822.html
Happy Birthday Eliza and Lyndsey
http://www.ivillage.com/labor-and-delivery-moms-crazy-giving-birth-stories/6-b-444313#530917
10 husband stitches were demanded after that vaginal birth.
I knew you would fall in love the minute you saw him Kapunua!!
A beautiful baby.
So many wonderful experiences ahead of you :)
New mummy is stressed, exhausted, a zombie, and panicking over every slightest little thing. Callum sleeps all day and fusses through the night; won't sleep in his crib so I've been lying in the recliner with him from midnight till 8 AM, not sleeping much. This morning I dozed off with him, and woke up freaking out because I thought he was covered in red spots. Turns out I was looking at my bathrobe, which has little pink skulls all over it. O_o Anxiety sucks! I feel like I've turned into Claire from Lost. "MY BAY-BAY!"
Got a pediatrician appointment in a few hours and I'm going to bombard her with all the questions and concerns, and hopefully feel better about everything, at least for a few hours. ^_^
Anyone who wants to read the entire gruesome birth story... it's here. :D
And pics of his lovely face, too.
Kapunua, as one mother to another:
the anxiety you are experiencing is NORMAL
I fretted over many things too. And I am continually learning :)
I like his name Kapunua!
http://www.wired.co.uk/news/archive/2013-05/22/bionic-humans-killer-robots
TY 449. Yesterday I thought I was going nuts! The dr appmt went well.Her only concern is he's so strong, he can flip himself all over. She told me to make wedges to keep him still. He has insane muscle tone for a newborn. O-o
Hiya guys, how are you all?
Congratulations K, baby Callum looks just like you.
woke up freaking out because I thought he was covered in red spots. Turns out I was looking at my bathrobe, which has little pink skulls all over it.
Aw bless, you sound shattered sweetie. Sounds like you've given birth to a baby strongman.
Anon, Eurovision - noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
Anon, Eurovision - noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
So I take that you didn't like the Romanian vampire and his expressive dance team, or the hometown favourites where the singer was a fourth generation wrestler, but found his real calling was music.
Or Bonnie Tyler.
Lol
;)
I love boy babies and their itty bitty man hands.
So cute :)
Music for the day:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQGPPmrSnKY
Trance is in my DNA :)
Emo
tionless.
Her only concern is he's so strong, he can flip himself all over. She told me to make wedges to keep him still. He has insane muscle tone for a newborn.
OMG, my daughter was the same way. She was crazy strong and able to roll around in her crib right from the start. She passed all her milestones insanely early, and people didn't always believe me when I would tell them what she was doing. I can't imagine why I would have made any of that up, because it was actually kind of scary. I was always so afraid she would hurt herself. :/
These next few months are the hardest, Kapunua, and sometimes you think you'll never get through them. But in retrospect, it seems like my baby's first year flew by. You have so much to look forward to, and I know you'll do great.
Did you lose your way 7:39?
I'm afraid there are no emos here.
trust your heart
if the seas catch fire
(and live by love
though the stars walk backward)
Kapunua you have the long mermaid hair!
Just like me :)
“I understand now, that boundaries between noise and sound are conventions. All boundaries are conventions, waiting to be transcended. One may transcend any convention, if only one can first conceive of doing so. Moments like this, I can feel your heart beating as clearly as I feel my own, and I know that separation is an illusion. My life extends far beyond the limitations of me.”
i walked around as you do, investigating the endless star,
and in my net, during the night, I woke up naked, the only thing caught, a fish trapped inside the wind
That's better than the spam this blog is catching. ^__~
I'm waiting for the breast pump ads to start.
I'm glad the spam got taken down. So annoying.
when you feel OUT of place
you don't have to be afraid, you don't have to be afraid ♪
Hiya guys, how are you all?
Anonymous said...
Anon, Eurovision - noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
So I take that you didn't like the Romanian vampire and his expressive dance team, or the hometown favourites where the singer was a fourth generation wrestler, but found his real calling was music.
Or Bonnie Tyler.
Lol
;)
Very funny anon, when you put it like that, what's not to like. I must admit I was impressed the other year when I saw a clip of those really old peasant women, can't remember where they were from. And I was impressed with the last two entries by Jedward, they should have won. My mum loves them so she made me watch. They was robbed.
How are things going with your young man Kapunua?
Hope you are both well.
Threatening to kill your neighbor's dog with a sword and smash the neighbor's face in is more than the baby blues.
Postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis are serious mental illnesses. Their symptoms shouldn't be ignored or excused away.
"Postpartum psychosis.
This severe condition is most likely to affect women with bipolar disorder or a history of postpartum psychosis. Symptoms, which usually develop during the first 3 postpartum weeks (as soon as 1 to 2 days after childbirth), include:13
Feeling removed from your baby, other people, and your surroundings (depersonalization).
Disturbed sleep, even when your baby is sleeping.
Extremely confused and disorganized thinking, increasing your risk of harming yourself, your baby, or another person.
Drastically changing moods and bizarre behavior.
Extreme agitation or restlessness.
Unusual hallucinations, often involving sight, smell, hearing, or touch.
Delusional thinking that isn't based in reality.
Postpartum psychosis is considered an emergency requiring immediate medical treatment. If you have any psychotic symptoms, seek emergency help immediately. Until you tell your doctor and get treatment, you are at high risk of suddenly harming yourself or your baby."
http://www.webmd.com/depression/postpartum-depression/postpartum-depression-symptoms
Kapunua, ignore 12:42/1:06.
They obviously don't understand how protective mothers can be in regards to the safety of their children.
Actually, I would have killed it even before the baby came along, for attacking my dogs again. It broke Sano's leg the last time it attacked. I'll never let that happen again if I can help it.
I've wanted to kill my neighbors' dog just because the damn thing barks incessantly. Not that I would actually do it. But, let it attack one of my children or my cat, and all bets are off. Dog dead. The end. And my youngest is fourteen. I don't think you can blame that on postpartum psychosis.
I would protect my dog too, after all they are family.
Dogs are the best!
Kapunua I just read that William Gibson's new novel will be out around 22nd October and he's touring. YAY!!
Hoping he will come out my way. Then I will drag my other half with me :)
Dogs are the best!
I'm a cat person, so I have to disagree with you here. But yeah, pets are family, and I don't blame Kapunua one little bit. If you ask me, she has shown remarkable restraint, given that her neighbor's dog broke her dog's leg. Animals like that should not be allowed to run wild.
If I see one more post on tumblr calling for my favorite actor to be the next Doctor Who, I'm going to scream.
Maybe if Moffat left as well, but before then, no.
Apparently Rory Kinnear is the front runner.
I'm a cat person, so I have to disagree with you here
I like cats too, just my preference is for dogs: I like their loyal and protective tendencies. (And their silliness at times) :)
I like dogs too, but I prefer cats. Cats are so independent, and they all have such unique personalities. I also like their overall "fuck you" attitude. They're sassy. :)
But whatever you prefer, pets add so much to your life. They become part of your family.
I don't see cats the way you do.
I agree they have more of a tendency to be independent and that's evolutionary, just as the pack instincts are for dogs, however even pets have their own distinctive personalities and not all cats are what you call "sassy". (Alpha personalities exist in both cats and dogs)
Also I don't understand the "sassy" thing. In people there comes a time where maturity and being strong and resolute is preferable to being immaturely "sassy".
In people there comes a time where maturity and being strong and resolute is preferable to being immaturely "sassy".
Are you for real?
First of all, we aren't talking about people. And second, dogs are not exactly "mature".
I'm not going to get into an argument about which is better, dogs or cats, because it's a matter of preference, and the two animals are so different that it makes the argument ridiculous.
Cats aren't always sassy. They can be very sweet and loving. Dogs aren't always loyal. Sometimes they turn on their owners for no reason. You can't really generalize because no two are the same.
Can we maybe get a person of colour for Doctor Who? Paterson Joseph or David Harewood would be awesome.
Rory Kinnear is great, but many of the newer fans would never accept a middle aged, balding guy for the part (especially the really annoying ones who used to swoon over David Tennant).
First of all, we aren't talking about people. And second, dogs are not exactly "mature".
I never said that dogs were :)
Did you notice I did mention they had a tendency to be silly.
Cats aren't always sassy. They can be very sweet and loving. Dogs aren't always loyal. Sometimes they turn on their owners for no reason. You can't really generalize because no two are the same
Yeah, well I agree with you there.
Dogs don't turn for no reason.
It's a 90's trance kinda day...
And all the memories of Gatecrasher.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OT4B-NJUcZE
http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/lookout/woman-finally-goes-prom-being-held-captive-decade-165721798.html
MCR dead. Blog dead.
RIP
It's not dead, it's evolved ;)
Funny what you find when you clean out your wardrobe.
All your old cyber raver gear!
MCR's not dead. The music lives and the members evolved into other bands and projects.
http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/streams-of-consciousness/2013/06/03/meeting-your-spouse-online-may-lead-to-a-better-marriage/
Bullshit. If that were true the divorce rate would be going down instead of going up. I still can't get over the fact that people really believe they're involved in a relationship with a person they've never met.
I've seen so many people say that they've been in a relationship with someone for a year or two and they can't wait to finally meet them in person.
It's ridiculous.
It's ludicrous.
If you haven't touched them , you're not in a relationship with them. If they haven't held you in their arms, looked you in the eyes and told you that they wanted to rip your clothes off, you're not in a relationship with. Not in love. Not in lust. Not in nothing.
The worst part is that some people really believe the online fantasy and if and when they do meet in person and their claimed partner totally blows them off it can be devastating to the rejected person.
It can be hard on the person doing the rejecting too. Having to come up with some bullshit excuse like I've decided to dedicate my life to God and become a priest, nun or join a monastery because they aren't physically attracted to the person they may have liked online.
It still all comes down to chemistry. To physical attraction. To primal instinct.
If the chemistry isn't there nothing else will matter. You have to want and desire your partner in the most basic, primal way if the partnership is to have any chance of success.
Chemistry. Physical attraction. That's the difference between just friends and friends who are also lovers and that can't be found online. That's only determined in person.
lol
Just want to share this here. Have you guys heard of the Everyday Sexism awareness mission? Well, here's a link to a video about it. They are on twitter, and it's global. So important to bring awareness of everyday sexism that is going on everywhere.
Please click and help get this out there, to help women have a voice, and support, and make some men realise that some of their everyday actions and comments are very wrong
we can do better if we find our spouse using a computer.
LoL
I think you are missing the point of the article.
I think what it is trying to say is if you meet someone online that you click with, you are possibly not putting up any defenses and being yourself, unlike if you meet someone at a club or formal setting and take longer to get to know, therefore if you eventually meet that person in real life it may lead to a better outcome.
Any person who has common sense would know you can't be in a true relationship with someone you have never met in real life, even though you may feel connected to them in an emotional sense.
It still all comes down to chemistry. To physical attraction. To primal instinct.
And this attitude is why so many marriages fail. The physical attraction fades away after a while and then what? If you don't have that emotional/cerebral connection then once the thrill is gone there's nothing left.
With online dating, you make the cerebral connection first and then when you meet, if the physical is there, then you have the best of both worlds.
If you haven't touched them , you're not in a relationship with them. If they haven't held you in their arms, looked you in the eyes and told you that they wanted to rip your clothes off, you're not in a relationship with. Not in love. Not in lust. Not in nothing
Well I believe that a good relationship needs to have a strong friendship, the ability to ride out the waves and old fashioned rumpy pumpy :)
Kapunua how are you and little Callum going?
All the best to you.
Not bad! Colic though. :((((( Using colic calm and it seems to do the job. Sleeping a bit better too. Five hours total last night woooo!
And we used the ergo-carrier for a nice walk today. :)
Five hours Kapunua?
You're doing well :)
http://music.yahoo.com/news/top-20-concert-tours-pollstar-214845584.html
"We decided to focus on violence against women as this issue is unfortunately never outdated and has grown in importance due to the recent happenings in India and Egypt.
"Nonetheless, the problem is present in the UK in our local communities as well, for example, the human trafficking case in Ripley and countless cases of sexual assaults and domestic violence."
http://www.thisisnottingham.co.uk/Festival-tells-unsettling-story-women-suffer/story-19206963-detail/story.html#axzz2VWhD7hb5
Yup, and last night SEVEN hours! Not uninterrupted, of course. And my Mom takes him (with a bottle) for 3 hours at night so I can take a nap; I count that for sure because it's the best sleep I get, even though it's on my sofa while she's in her house with the baby!
It's weird, I can't nap in my bedroom because Callum isn't there when his Gran has him and the empty crib freaks me out now. O_O So neurotic.
So I have this 3 hour nap and last night I was on the couch while Hannibal was on, and every time I opened my eyes, I'd see something horrible and get really messed up dreams. (I still can't quit watching that show, though!)
Hiya guys, how are you all?
Anonymous said...
I like dogs too, but I prefer cats. Cats are so independent, and they all have such unique personalities. I also like their overall "fuck you" attitude. They're sassy. :)
I'm with you Anon, always been more of a cat person myself.
On the Dr Who debate. I think Russell Tovey would be brilliant.
old fashioned rumpy pumpy :)
Snigger! Not heard it put like that in a while Anon. made me smile.
Wow K, 7 hours. I hope Callum can keep that up.
the empty crib freaks me out now. O_O So neurotic.
I can see how that could be kind of creepy.
Sorry, felines can be cute, but dogs are more me :)
It's weird, I can't nap in my bedroom because Callum isn't there when his Gran has him and the empty crib freaks me out now. O_O So neurotic.
You're not neurotic, you're a mummy :)
I get the same feelings too.
http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg21829204.400-carbon-emissions-helping-to-make-earth-greener.html
Hannibal creeps me out. I can't watch it at all.
It doesn't help that the last time I saw Hugh Dancy (The Pride, off Broadway in 2010), his character raped Ben Whishaw's character. It was harrowing. I have trouble seeing him as the good guy. :(
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn23667-atheists-turn-to-science-during-times-of-stress.html
http://www.inquisitr.com/692227/facebook-terror-post-teen-cameron-dambrosio-freed/
"While today is a major victory for Cam, the chilling effect that this case has already had on free speech cannot be undone," said Evan Greer, of Boston's Center for Rights and Fight For The Future, which organized an online petition supporting D'Ambrosio
23 year old John Zawahri gunman in deadly Santa Monica shooting spree
http://news.yahoo.com/police-id-gunman-deadly-santa-monica-rampage-234402448.html
"Police had contact with the Zawahri in 2006, but because he was a juvenile, authorities couldn't release further information, Santa Monica Police Chief Jacqueline Seabrooks said.
A law enforcement source with knowledge of the investigation told CNN on Saturday that the gunman had suffered from mental health issues. A few years ago, he was hospitalized for treatment after allegedly talking about harming someone"
http://www.cnn.com/2013/06/09/justice/california-college-gunman/?hpt=hp_t1
Big brother is watching, listening and reading your private emails, messages and texts.
http://www.cnn.com/2013/06/10/politics/nsa-leak/index.html
Snowden's revelations began Wednesday when the Guardian published a top secret court order demanding that Verizon Business Network Services turn over details of phone calls published from April 25 to July 19. Intelligence officials later confirmed the program, which analysts say likely covers all U.S. carriers.
On Thursday, the Guardian and the Post disclosed the existence of PRISM, a program they said allows NSA analysts to extract the details of people's online activities -- including "audio and video chats, photographs, e-mails, documents" and other materials -- from computers at Microsoft, Google, Apple and other Internet firms.
Stop sexting & messaging me with those noods. You're turning on all the NSA & CIA agents & whoever else they're forwarding the noods to.
Arrested 396 times.
http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/19542640-418/arrested-396-times.html
including "audio and video chats, photographs, e-mails, documents" and other materials -- from computers at Microsoft, Google, Apple and other Internet firms.
You can have the internet or you can have privacy. You can't have both.
You can lock posts and delete comments you've made but they're not private and they're not gone.
You can lie and deny the things you've said and posted on the internet but at least 1000 people saw and read what you said and they'll be watching you for the rest. of. your.life. They know you lie. They're watching you now.
Bwahhahaha
Thing is, most of us don't have anything to hide.
George Orwell's '1984' Book Sales Skyrocket In Wake Of NSA Surveillance Scandal
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/11/orwell-1984-sales_n_3423185.html
"As the Los Angeles Times points out, President Obama even referenced 1984 last week as he defended the NSA's broad and controversial Internet surveillance program, details of which recently leaked to the public.
"In the abstract, you can complain about Big Brother and how this is a potential program run amok, but when you actually look at the details, then I think we've struck the right balance," Obama said."
Hiya guys, how are you all?
We are also focusing on the same internet surveillance discussions on our side of the pond. Our government wants to do more snooping in a crackdown on terrorists. To be honest, I'm not bothered cos if you've got nothing to hide, why care and also, I think they are watching us all already so it's all irrelevant.
They know you lie. They're watching you now.
Bwahhahaha
LOL Anon.
For god's sake, SOMEBODY HELP WILL GRAHAM!!! Like, NOW!
He should ask the Fabulous Killjoys for help. The comic , Gerard Way, Shaun Simon and Becky Cloonan are getting rave reviews.
"Books like this don’t come around often. Fabulous art, amazing characters, an intriguing story, and an irresistible premise culminate into something immaculate in Gerard Way (of My Chemical Romance) and Shaun Simon’s “The True Lives of the Fabulous Killjoys” #1."
http://bloody-disgusting.com/news/3238030/5-skull-review-the-true-lives-of-the-fabulous-killjoys-1/
"9.5 Amazing. Way and Simon's world building takes place through text as well as visuals. The cadence of the language is at once strange and familiar -- it's different enough to displace it from our world, but not so different that it's difficult to fall into it. "
http://www.ign.com/articles/2013/06/13/the-true-lives-of-the-fabulous-killjoys-1-review
http://famousmonsters.com/reviews/comic-review-the-true-lives-of-the-fabulous-killjoys-1/
"And what a striking impression the book does leave on the reader. If “Killjoys” commits any crime, it is in refusing to compromise on the fragmented story that it wants to tell. The Killjoys would tell you that that isn’t a crime at all. Individuality is so important in a comic book industry that tends to fall into repetitive cycles and trends. “Killjoys” is a celebration of expecting the unexpected and carving out your own path."
http://multiversitycomics.com/reviews/review-the-true-lives-of-the-fabulous-killjoys-1/
http://m.mtv.com/geek/article.rbml?id=2013/06/12/my-chemical-romance-true-lives-of-the-fabulous-killjoys-interview-video/&weburl=http%3a%2f%2fgeek-news.mtv.com%2f2013%2f06%2f12%2fmy-chemical-romance-true-lives-of-the-fabulous-killjoys-interview-video%2f&alt=http%3a%2f%2fm.mtv.com%2fgeek%2fblog.rbml&cid=300
The US military is developing software that will let it secretly manipulate social media sites by using fake online personas to influence internet conversations and spread pro-American propaganda.
Someone is trying to manipulate social media by using fake or anonymous personas to influence conversations and spread their own agenda and propaganda? You don't say? It's unheard of. I'm shocked.
You think there's a built in trollbot to automatically call any dissenters trolls or edjits?
Doing ballet is great for toning your body back into shape after pregnancy, especially for spinal alignment :)
One good thing post pregnancy is great tits!
(for me at least )
Not everybody loves the Killjoys -- From Crave Online:
"Reading this first issue a few times, I’m left feeling that those who love this must be fans of the band and the album Danger Days, which Killjoys is loosely based on. I say that because, not being a fan of the band, I found Killjoys to be disjointed and cliché, pulling touchstones from any number of classic sci-fi themes. The giant, evil corporation represented by a large city? The rebel punks who live out in the wastelands? The unwitting messiah? The tough gang leader who buries his feelings beneath layers of harsh words? Off the top of my head, I think of Judge Dredd, The Road Warrior, The Matrix and The Warriors. Where, exactly, is the brazen originality here?"
No one is interested 8:30.
Will Graham DDDDDDD: I just want to hug him and make it better! ^_^
I'm not having a lot of struggles with post-pregnancy weight. In fact I was down to my normal weight the next day.
Cooter-stitches aren't fun though. O_o
The characterization of Will Graham on that show is just about the best thing I've ever seen on network tv. Everything about him comes together so brilliantly: the discomfort in social situations, the penchant for collecting strays, his empathy and self-doubt -- and now an undisclosed medical condition that threatens his sanity and his life. JFC.
Throw in his those gorgeous green eyes and messy mop of curly hair and yeah. Somebody damn well better help Will Graham or I'ma cut some bitches. ^_-
I'm always a sucker for a damaged hero. Also, it's super nice to see a character in distress who is not a damsel!
It is nice to see a character in distress who isn't a damsel. I'd love it if Gillian Anderson's character comes to his rescue. Or maybe Alana or Beverly. Somebody has to figure out sooner or later that what's going on with him has a physiological component, and it sure as hell isn't going to be Jack, who's about as smart as a box of rocks. :/
'm not having a lot of struggles with post-pregnancy weight. In fact I was down to my normal weight the next day.
Same. I was not very big and back to normal apart from the things up top ;)
Ballet isn't about weight control, it's more about posture and balance and it re-strengthens the abdominal muscles.
I think Jack has already figured him out and is just not letting on.
He (Will Graham, I presume) should ask the Fabulous Killjoys for help.
Gerard Way/MCR fans drive me up a wall. Do they never get out of the house? Or maybe visit other parts of the internet that have to do with things that aren't MCR related? Somebody help Will Graham is one of the biggest memes around at the moment, and they're trying to connect it to Gerard's stupid comic. How unbelievably lame.
I don't care about Gerard Way and his dumb comic book, but if that picture of Will standing on the roof of his house in his underwear shows up on my tumblr dash one more time, I swear to god, I'm going to crack. :(
Somebody has got to get that poor boy some proper medical care!
I am inlove with Gillian Anderson on this show. I hope she'll have more time next season. :D
Anything you don't say can be used against you in a court of law.
http://news.yahoo.com/supreme-court-decided-silence-used-against-161934950.html
I remember the X-files, liked Gillian Anderson as Agent Scully.
Her character was a wonderful mix of skepticism and brains which added so much dimension to the series and balanced Mulder perfectly :)
swiggety swam, someone help will graham!
I knew that Serena Williams was a dumbass but I never she was this ignorant.
"We watch the news for a while, and the infamous Steubenville rape case flashes on the TV—two high school football players raped a 16-year-old, while other students watched and texted details of the crime. Serena just shakes her head. "Do you think it was fair, what they got? They did something stupid, but I don't know. I'm not blaming the girl, but if you're a 16-year-old and you're drunk like that, your parents should teach you—don't take drinks from other people. She's 16, why was she that drunk where she doesn't remember? It could have been much worse. She's lucky. Obviously I don't know, maybe she wasn't a virgin, but she shouldn't have put herself in that position, unless they slipped her something, then that's different."
http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/tennis-busted-racquet/serena-williams-speaks-steubenville-rape-victim-questions-her-212112851.html
No Serena. They didn't do something stupid. They did something disgusting, violent and criminal. Shouldn't their parents have taught them to not sexually assault and rape a girl under any circumstances.
You did something stupid when you opened your mouth and let your ignorance come out.
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Gotta love blaming the victim. :/ LIke it matters if she was a virgin or not! She could have slept with a hundred guys - they STILL don't have the right to touch her without her enthusiastic consent.
Sometimes I hate people.
Sometimes I hate people.
You and me both. Do they not realize that they're putting such ridiculous double standards on women? I mean, if a 16 year old guy goes out and gets dead drunk and passes out, would he be considered "lucky" if he just got anally raped by a couple of guys? I mean, one wouldn't know if he was a virgin or not, but he shouldn't put himself in that position...
Yeah. Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? And blaming the girls parents for not teaching her better? Please.
If one of my friends, male or female got really drunk at a party, my only concern would be making sure they got home okay. But then, I'm a decent, compassionate human being. Maybe those boys' parents are the ones who should have taught their sons about compassion and decency. Oh, and NOT TO RAPE.
You can buy the school but you can't buy class.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2343015/Gee-Dad-thanks-taking-G8-Obama-arrives-Northern-Ireland-family.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2343636/Obama-turns-G8-Summit-Ireland-family-trip-costs-U-S-taxpayers-5-2million-just-days-abroad.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2343856/G8-Summit-Michelle-Obama-Malia-Sasha-lunch-Bono-Ireland.html?ito=feeds-newsxml
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2013/jun/19/decline-fall-american-society-unravelled
Can you smother your baby with too many kisses?
I don't think you can :)
Fuck fuck fuckity fuck fuck fuck!!!
Fuck Hannibal.
I can't even with that finale! DDDDDD:
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