It now looks like lots of us were wrong about Frank Iero too. Women getting punched is now funny to him too. And so is offending everyone he can. He now seems to enjoy the fact that he can say whatever nasty thing he wants and make people feel bad if he feels like it, without consequences.
That's the life and mind set of a true "Rock Star".
It's not like they're worth caring about anymore anyway....
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«Oldest ‹Older 1401 – 1600 of 1758 Newer› Newest»There were the rumors about him getting engaged to Eliza because he thought she was pregnant. I can see Lindsey figuring she was more likely to hang onto him if she had a baby.
Maybe he got engaged to Eliza because he thought that something was on the way? Wasn't there a story about Eliza faking a pregnancy or a miscarriage? Maybe that's why he got engaged to her? Because he was afraid that she would tell people that she's pregnant and that he refused to marry her? I guess that wouldn't have looked good in the fandom. Maybe he found out that she was taking him for a ride and immediately broke up the relationship and wanted to get back at her so badly for almost making him marry her although she was only a fuck buddy that he used Lindsey and all his embarrassing stage antics for it? I wouldn't be surprised if he only married Lindsey and impregnated her to get back at Eliza too. After all, he's obsessed with revenge.
Just a thought.
There were the rumors about him getting engaged to Eliza because he thought she was pregnant.
Hahaha, anon! You've beat me to it!
You don't necessarily marry someone just because they are pregnant.
Eliza is an attention whore. Fact.
I remember when she made a dramatic announcement that 'this will be my last ever blog' as she apparently feared for the safety of herself and her family.
I find that odd, as she seems to have no problem tweeting her work schedule, where she is going to be eating lunch, where she will be meeting her folks for 'fam hangs', which bars and clubs she's going to that night etc.
You don't necessarily marry someone just because they are pregnant.
Nope, but the shit would have hit the fan if he didn't. Especially after all his "I don't sleep with groupies" b.s.
Sorry, I don't believe any of that. I believe Lindsey and Gerard made the decision together to become parents. I know it's only speculation, but that's what I believe.
I believe Eliza lied about being pregnant to force a marriage proposal.
When he found out she was lying he kicked her to the curb. And I don't blame him.
Sorry, I don't believe any of that. I believe Lindsey and Gerard made the decision together to become parents. I know it's only speculation, but that's what I believe.
Then why did Gerard say the baby was a surprise?
I don't think they made a decision to have Bandit. Gerard said the pregnancy was a total surprise and Bandit was not planned.
When he found out she was lying he kicked her to the curb. And I don't blame him.
I don't blame him for that either, but he was damn stupid to get involved with her in the first place.
Yes, he was stupid. I agree with you there.
Sorry, I don't believe any of that. I believe Lindsey and Gerard made the decision together to become parents. I know it's only speculation, but that's what I believe.
That doesn't mean that either of them didn't have a hidden agenda about why they would have wanted to have a baby. She might have wanted to keep her mealticket and he might have wanted to get back at someone/proof his heterosexuality.
I still think he only wanted a baby to prove that he actually had sex with a female.
Why would you believe anything he says? Maybe it doesn't look good for rockstars to plan babies.
*prove
Gah, it's late.
I don't believe anything he says. But planning a baby takes forethought and is something that intelligent, sane people do.
That exempts Gerard and Lindsey for sure.
Even stupid people plan babies.
I once watched a Youtube video from some German MSI fan. MSI were here in Germany and they asked someone in that band (I think it was piss pot) if the baby was planned and he said no.
Maybe that's the story his "best friend" told him to stick to.
Nothing about the pregnancy adds up to it being planned. Lindsey was in the middle of MSI's biggest tour. Gerard was getting ready to make a new record and in the middle of promoting Dallas. They had only been married about a year. And he said it was a surprise.
It doesn't add up that she was planned.
So, if it was planned, what difference does it make? I don't know what you want to say with that?
That they're truly in love?
Lol. I don't understand why it's so important that the baby be planned.
I feel pretty damn bad for that kid if she was planned and her parents are saying that she isn't. That's kind of denying her, isn't it. The same way Gerard denied Eliza.
I know he's a creep, but damn. That's low even for him.
An unplanned kid doesn't have to be an unwanted kid, anon.
I'm pretty sure when you decide to have a child you cannot predict when you actually conceive. And conception can happen in the middle of big career upheavals, especially if you are in the music industry. There is no "good time".
4:02 I agree with Siobhan. She is probably very much loved by both parents. I only believe both parents planned her, but won't acknowledge it, to get millage out of their "romantic" public love affair for the fangirls.
But why do you believe she was planned? What evidence do you have when everyone says she wasn't?
As I said previously, I am only speculating. It's what I believe. A friend of mine also told me how Steve Montano's wife confided to JU's wife, Lindsey & Gerard would be the next parents, after her own pregnancy was confirmed. She tweeted it. Why she say this unless LW gave her the impression they were trying?
he looks better blue
indeed he does.
Maybe he found out that she was taking him for a ride and immediately broke up the relationship and wanted to get back at her so badly for almost making him marry her although she was only a fuck buddy that he used Lindsey and all his embarrassing stage antics for it? I wouldn't be surprised if he only married Lindsey and impregnated her to get back at Eliza too. After all, he's obsessed with revenge.
Just a thought.
That would be the dumbest thing to do just for revenge.
then its rather fitting for gerard
Yes, stupid people like that deserve a cosmic kick in the butt.
Maybe he got engaged to Eliza because he thought that something was on the way? Wasn't there a story about Eliza faking a pregnancy or a miscarriage? Maybe that's why he got engaged to her? Because he was afraid that she would tell people that she's pregnant and that he refused to marry her? I guess that wouldn't have looked good in the fandom. Maybe he found out that she was taking him for a ride and immediately broke up the relationship and wanted to get back at her so badly for almost making him marry her although she was only a fuck buddy that he used Lindsey and all his embarrassing stage antics for it? I wouldn't be surprised if he only married Lindsey and impregnated her to get back at Eliza too. After all, he's obsessed with revenge.
Just a thought.
I'm sorry. Though Eliza comes across as a desperate immature girl, however I cannot see Gerard as anything less than a duplicitous cheater.
From Eliza's blog:
It was an honor for people to even think that I was a plant ahhahaha. Mwah!"
Everyone knows that you're a plant, Eliza. You were put at VIP section during the audition, being filmed singing at different angles, and no less than 3 local papers interviewed you. And let's not forget that you actually made it to Hollywood week (you get the golden ticket not because of your talent but because of your connection) and was dropped from the show after that Blind Date video of yours resurfaced.
I have to agree with some of the anons. I believe Gerard lies about almost everything so if he said Bandit was a surprise she most likely wasn't. The thing that irks me the most is that he conjures up these fictitious stories solely to brag about how exciting and dramatic his life is.
I think Eliza was dropped from AI because of the video of her being racist surfaced, not the Blind Date video.
I love how Rose is now tag-teaming with Eliza as part of the 'rejected by MCR' group. Homegirl needs to do some research into Eliza's past if she doesn't want to end up burned.
My personal feelings about Eliza aside (I hate her), I still don't see Gerard as being a victim here. He never should have led her on. One look at this girl and anyone with half a brain would know that she isn't all there. If he used her as a bedwarmer then that was pretty damn low of him.
Anyone with any sense and common decency would have run like hell away from her, not said, "Oh, here's my chance to get laid."
I don't think anyone here agrees that Gerard was a helpless victim, but that does not excuse Eliza for acting like a queen stalker and then rubbing it in fan's faces like a cat that got the cream afterwards. Eliza got what she deserved, and now she's clearly got no intention of fading away from the narrow limelight her former relationship generated, so did Gerard.
Yes, but Gerard gave her that platform. He allowed her and her cronies to do the things she did like run roughshod over fans on the internet. He probably thought it was funny until it came back and bit him in the ass.
I'm not excusing Eliza, but none of us would have even had the misfortune of having to look at her idiot face if Gerard had kept his libido in check.
Using a crazy person for sex is a vile thing to do. It's almost as bad as taking advantage of a mentally retarded person.
In fact, I'm not entirely sure that Eliza isn't mentally retarded.
As far as I know, Gerard didn't really have an idea of the full extent of what her and the WMHC were getting upto online.
I remember a fan who obtained a meet and greet because she stuck up for Eliza online, and apparently Gerard 'thanked' her for being nice to Eliza when everyone on the internet hated her guts. He didn't know she was the cause of it in the first place.
Someone showed him a bunch of the things she'd been doing, and a week later, she was dumped.
I think Eliza was very good at hiding her crazy side when she was around the band. She did work in the industry, so it wasn't like she followed the tour bus around for a month and one day he was like 'hop in!' She exploited her friendship with Mikey to get Gerard's trust.
As far as I know, Gerard didn't really have an idea of the full extent of what her and the WMHC were getting upto online.
I call bullshit on that.
And as far as Eliza hiding her crazy? I don't think it's possible to hide that much crazy.
Someone showed him a bunch of the things she'd been doing, and a week later, she was dumped.
That's all just speculation. Eliza had been up to all that internet bullshit for two years so I don't see how Gerard was just finding out about it unless he's the one who is mentally retarded.
I don't see how Gerard was just finding out about it unless he's the one who is mentally retarded.
LOL. That would explain a lot.
I think that's why they call him Geetard.
You think Gerard fires up his PC and lurks the MCR communities? Nah. Gerard may have known a little, but there's no way he knew the amount of shit she was causing, and even if he suspected, she'd always claim it was her being 'cyber bullied' and fighting back.
I don't believe that Gerard doesn't surf the internet. I think that's just another one of his lies.
Not only do I think he knew, but I think he thought it was funny. I think that Eliza gave him the opportunity to behave toward fans the way he truly wanted to: with disrespect. He could pretend to be a goody two shoes and let his girlfriend take all the heat for the disdain he felt for the stupid teenage girls who professed their undying love to him on the internet.
I think that Eliza gave him the opportunity to behave toward fans the way he truly wanted to: with disrespect.
Does anyone remember that video of a show from the time of the Gerard/Eliza engagement where some girl yelled out that she wanted fuck Gerard and he responded, "You want to fuck me? Sorry, but that seat's taken!"?
I remember thinking that he said that with such malice, like he was taking pleasure in the fact that he was possibly breaking some little girl's heart.
Yeah. I think he not only knew what Eliza was doing, but he got off on it.
I've been around this fandom for a long time and it just seems to me like people always make excuses for Gerard, even when they claim they don't like him.
Oh, he didn't know what Eliza was up to. He shouldn't be blamed. Oh, Lindsey and MSI are just using him, he shouldn't be blamed. He didn't write Panty Shot, he shouldn't be blamed. Oh, he's human. He shouldn't be blamed.
Now I'm seeing the same thing with Frank.
These guys are all adults and they're responsible for their own actions. They should be held accountable.
Eaxctly, but Eliza behaving in the way she behaved towards fans online is her behaviour, not Gerard's.
I dislike this trend of giving her sympathy simply because she was jilted by a man you dislike. Gerard is an asshole, but Eliza is just as bad as him. Anyone with a net connection could see that.
Eaxctly, but Eliza behaving in the way she behaved towards fans online is her behaviour, not Gerard's.
Well i don't blame her. She was called terrible names because alot of fans wanted Gerard to stay single, because in their minds they thought they had a chance with him.
You don't blame her?
You think that fans 'calling her names' means she can band the word 'N*gger' around when she feels like it? Really?
She didn't call fans that word. She was with her friends(Jeffree Star) when she made that video. Yes, it was dumb but she isn't the brightest.
Oh so that makes it alright. Okay then.
She acted like an idiot from day one. And I guess maybe if 'people calling you names' makes anything you do in retaliation okay, then Lindsay is fine to say whatever she does, too. Like 'you're all fat and eat crisps'. You agree?
No, I didn't think so.
Using the N word doesn't make you dumb. It makes you a racist. Racists don't get much slack in my book.
Gerard and Eliza both share in the blame equally. I don't see where either one of them is better than the other.
No one is saying one is better. We're saying that the people wanting to like or excuse Eliza shouldn't do so simply because she's now 'on their side'.
She acted in a disgusting, idiotic manner, much like Frank has done, and needs to be called out on that, not have her racism and fail handwaved away.
No one is saying one is better.
I don't know. I've seen a lot of "Gerard didn't know" and "he dumped her when he found out she was a racist" blah, blah, blah.
I'm not excusing her. I'm not one of the people on her side. I just don't like when people make excuses for Gerard in any way because I believe he knew exactly what Eliza was and he got engaged to her anyway.
Well, the timing is sure funny. He dumped her a week after that racist video resurfaced and was linked all over the MCR communities. Maybe he knew she was a jerk all along, but that was one thing he wouldn't be able to spin so it didn't have a negative impact on the band.
Looks like he's past caring about such things now MCR have decided they're just another 'rock and roll' band without a message.
Well, the timing is sure funny. He dumped her a week after that racist video resurfaced and was linked all over the MCR communities.
Honestly, I just think that was coincidence. If anything, the timing probably had more to do with him discovering that she wasn't really pregnant after all.
Even if he was devastated and angry when he found out, it was an incredibly stupid move on his part to be insulting her in an underhanded way in front of his narrow minded fans. He could have kept some dignity if he actually utilized his thinking cap.
He dumped her after 'bigbandmember' congratulate him on his engagement to the best head giver at warped tour.
He dumped her after 'bigbandmember' congratulate him on his engagement to the best head giver at warped tour.
Oh that whole thing was bullshit and anyone with half a brain knew that.
It was most likely written by a jealous fangirl.
http://twitpic.com/zbyl2 DimZ's art
and on a completely diffrent note Andy Dick got arrested in my town today
http://www.metronews.ca/calgary/entertainment/article/416062--vampire-weekend-broken-bells-among-new-albums-to-anticipate-this-year
those people are actually really well drawn in my opinion. gotta give credit where credit is due.
Let's hope Lindsey decides to stick to art and leaves the pole dancing, er, I mean bass playing to someone who can actually play bass.
those people are actually really well drawn in my opinion. gotta give credit where credit is due.
Agreed, but I feel somewhat uneasy about the fact she's trying to make a political statement with it...
who are the people in that picture anyway? the back two look like prince charles and putin maybe, but i'm not sure about the others
So is Lindsey getting into political satire? Somehow I don't think she has the intellect for it.
Dim-Z, that's great!
Can someone explain what WMHC do? What is the purpose of their existence? If its a "group of friends" like I heard then why did Meghan get thrown out and replaced? You can't replace your friends...
Link 1
Link 2
You can't replace your friends...
The WMHC can. It really says a lot about them.
The WMHC were a group whose catchphrase was 'more than just those rock dude's girlfriends', and it was supposed to show how they were ~feminist role models by having legit careers in the music industry and not just sleeping with famous people. But then Alicia hasn't worked since she shacked up with Mikey. Great role model there.
Can't wait for The Strokes new album and it will be interesting to see if MGMT's new effort will live up to Oracular Spectacular.
I'm not gonna lie, I'll probably give MCR's record a listen out of curiosity, but I'm not gonna buy it.
I doubt it will be out by March 30th though. It's always been MCR's style to give a release date and then keep pushing it back. It takes a while to fix Gerard's vocals.
'more than just those rock dude's girlfriends'
I don't know why they used that - only 2/5 were dating rawkstarz. The rest of them were just hangers on.
I'm going to give it a listen too. It'll have to be something pretty spectacular to win me over though.
But I'm not listening to The World is Ugly, whatever its new title will be, if I can help it.
The WMHC were a group of MCR hangers on who deluded themselves into thinking that kids would be interested in them beyond their connection to MCR when in reality, they had nothing interesting to say or offer beyond those connections.
The fact that the members of MCR willingly kept those kinds of people around says a lot about MCR. You can tell a lot about a person's character by the company he chooses to keep.
But I'm not listening to The World is Ugly, whatever its new title will be, if I can help it.
Me neither. I used to always flip past Cancer. I never could stand that song.
I doubt the new record is going to appeal to me anyway. I only listened to TBP maybe half a dozen times. There were a couple of songs from it that found their way to my iPod playlists, but I grew tired of them quickly too.
I just don't think they have what it takes to be one of those bands that you don't get tired of.
I used to like I Don't Love You...until the music video. That was hilarious.
And I actually didn't mind Teenagers. Again, the video ticked me off though. It was pretty much Smells Like Teen Spirit, but less atmospheric.
I find it hard to believe that Marc Webb directed both those videos. They were so bad. I'm thinking maybe he let Gerard have too much input on IDLY (because it was so awful) to get him to shut up.
I don't think Marc will be directing any more MCR videos, seeing as how he's going to be busy with Spiderman.
Speaking of Spiderman, I really hope Robert Pattison isn't cast. I'd much much prefer Jake Gyllenhaal.
From everything I've read about the new Spiderman, both Jake Gyllenhaal and RPattz are too old. I would prefer Anton Yelchin myself.
Robert Pattinson's name automatically comes up for everything. I don't think they would really cast him. He's just not right for the part at all.
If they went for a Twilight guy it would most likely be Taylor Lautner, although he would have to de-bulk. Lol.
Some people have suggested Zac Efron but I think he's too pretty. Joseph Gordon Levitt would be good. I loved 500 Days of Summer!
Anton Yelchin would be a great choice though.
Jackson Rathbone?
As long as we're throwing Twilight names out there. LOL. Yeah, I know he's all wrong for the part too, but he's so underrated and underused as an actor. Did anybody see him on criminal minds where he played Adam/Amanda? That was amazing.
http://www.buzznet.com/www/search/photos/mikey%20way/?id=83129691
Hipster scum.
lol. Who are the other people in that photo/what do they do?
I think they are other musicians in other washed up post hardcore bands and their skeevy wives.
http://www.buzznet.com/tags/aliciaway/photos/?p=2#pt
link one
link two
http://www.buzznet.com/tags/gerardway/photos/gerard-way-photo/?id=82822761
Okay. Yeah.
No breakfast for me this morning.
Link
Whoever drew that is a really good artist. They just need better material.
I don't understand what would possess someone to take the time to paint something like that.
MCR fans really creep me out.
I wonder if the new record will leak? TBP was shrouded in such secrecy but somehow I doubt they'll do that this time around.
Very very very odd, that picture.
I'm going to stop clicking links on this blog. I'm not really interested in fan art or pictures of Alicia and Mikey.
LOL. This place has turned into a fansite. You guys like to look at pictures of the band just as much as the fangirls you criticize.
Different reasoning.
Looking at pics for laughs vs. looking at pics due to adoration.
LOL. This place has turned into a fansite. You guys like to look at pictures of the band just as much as the fangirls you criticize.
Yes, we look at pictures but they don't make us drool or want to have their babies. Most of the stuff we post is of Gerards bad singing or his uncle fester or even a "sock" picture every once in awhile.(No, we don't want his sock) ^_~
"sock" picture every once in awhile.(No, we don't want his sock) ^_~
Definitely not.
Besides the "sock" belongs to Lindsey.
I wouldn't touch that sock with a ten foot pole. That sock is so dirty, it could stand up by itself.O_O
Was that pun intended Lynn? Hahaha. You're so rude! Love it!
Wel, dirty socks tend to get stiff um i meant...hard. You know what i mean! LOL!
anyone following me like my chem? or Morningwood? im thinking about Morningwood for opener...or whatever., also i like msi sometimes!
about 22 hours ago from web
From Courtney Love's twitter. I guess she wants someone to open for her when she starts touring. There will be Hell to pay if anyone turns her down!
I thought Courtney ditched her twitter?
http://twitter.com/courtneyloveuk
She's back. Be careful. You will get a headache reading her tweets! >_<
suppose that means she wasn't targeting the mcr/msi crowd in that article about bad influences around frances?
In Courtney's mind, "bad influences" are probably people who encourage Frances to read books and learn math.
That's not MCR or MSI.
it looks like she deleted the tweets cause i went to look at them and couldn't find them
From V Man Magazine:
Way knows he's making music for rebellious teenagers. He doesn't take it too seriously -- but does manage to find hefty emotion in seemingly laughable topics. "For example, on the new record I have this whole thing about black hair dye," he says. "There's something about being 15 or 16 and getting your first bottle. There is a ritual with it. It ends up on your neck, on your collar, in your nails. For most 16-year-olds, the biggest statement they can make is to dye their hair black."
Way to disrespect the "kids" who listen to your music, Gerard. Reduce them to a cliche about hair dye.
Typical.
most of them won't see it as disrespect though. they'll see it as him relating to them and being more accessible to them. so really he brings on the invasive crazy fans by running his mouth like he does. surely the rest of the band knows how damaging it is.
Gerard is all over the place. One minute he's trying to be metal. The next he's posing for "pop band" photoshoots and doing the pinup boy thing again.
Does he not realize that those two things are mutually exclusive? He can't have it both ways.
Scans. How terribly (not) punk of them.
Scroll up for the picture.
Just Mikey and Gerard?
Well, at least he let his brother participate in this one.
And his brother should have done all the talking.
Aren't pop star photo shoots mandatory when your new album is imminent?
What the eff is going on in that picture? I can't tell where Gerard ends and Mikey begins.
they look like gay newlyweds with their rings standing out like that
^
Lol. The photo looks really awkwardly composed... kind of like they just stuck Mikey in there as an afterthought.
"For most 16-year-olds, the biggest statement they can make is to dye their hair black."
No.
I had my hair black when I was around...15 (I'm 19 now) but I wasn't thinking "I'm making such a big statement" when I decided to dye it. And if dyeing your hair black is the biggest statement you can make, then that's kind of sad.
says a lot about gerard if he thinks that's a big statement for a kid to make
Only a portion of teenagers dye their hair black. Not all of them are into the emo scene. Only his band has become representative of them. And that's a generalization too. I'm assuming many of his fans aren't "emo" at all.
Is Gerard trying do his "I'm so hawt and don't you know it" look in that pic?
Could be the "I'm fucking married to my amazzzing wife" look. Nice touch with the obvious ring placement.
Is Gerard trying do his "I'm so hawt and don't you know it" look in that pic?
If so, he needs to try harder.
Perfectly Flawed here.
I had made it my job to show the world what a true leech and scank Alicia is. Up until I got my profile deleted on myspace about a year ago.
I got lazy and decided that her stupid followers would just have to kiss her ass some more until they realized for themselves what kind of person she is
Reading these wonderful comments inspired me to go on. Bless you all.
The Ways like to find their classy women at Tatts R Us
Aren't pop star photo shoots mandatory when your new album is imminent?
LOL. Not when you're a 'punk' band. Or a Judas Priest-esque 'heavy metal' band. Fashion shoots are more apropos for the Jonas Brothers or maybe the Backstreet Boys.
And LOL@ the strategic placement of the wedding rings. Front and center to prove that these are real men, people. No Gay Ways here! Could they be any more obvious?
What about kids who are self-confident and happy enough with who they are that they don't have to make "statements" with their hair color?
I personally love my natural hair. You can't get it out of a bottle and I resent the implication that the biggest statement I could have made when I was 16 was to do that.
Kids can do a lot of other things, like be a part of the community. They can volunteer at homeless shelters, paint, draw, write, dress in vintage clothes, etc., etc. If I chose to dye my hair black (or blue or purple or some other unnatural color) and dress in black clothes, I would look like every other emo/goth wannabe clone out there.
I'd rather be myself, thanks.
The kind of people who are still into MCR.
I still like mcr's music, I dislike them as people.
What bothers me most is the fact that they have to hide what they really are behind some "perfect" image of good guys. I'm referring to the clean gerard and no drugs/groupies.
That might have been true 5 years ago, but it obviously doesn't stand now.
Have you guys SEEN mikey recently? Good god, I was infatuated with the guy for 6 years, not even joking. And I have witnessed his steep decrease starting since he began dating that broad. Now he looks like a stoner. I'm just waiting for a picture with cocaine in his nostrils.
I don't think you can blame Mikey's actions on Alicia. Yeah, I think she's an attention whore and yes, I think she went after him because he was in a famous band. And I don't agree with her pretending like she ever had a "career" when it's pretty obvious all she wants to do is lie around the house and dress up her cats.
But Mikey chose her. Mikey chooses to live the lifestyle he's living. Alicia isn't holding a gun to his head. If he wasn't with her, he'd probably have found someone else just like her.
So, does Gerard come on the net and have sock-puppets?
I've often wondered that.
Has anyone got any stories about it?
Mikey has always looked like a stoner. If you go back and listen to that WSOU interview you can tell he's completely wasted -- so much so that the other guys didn't even want him to talk.
People used to say, "Oh, that Mikey. He's so random." In reality, it was more like "He's so wasted."
So, does Gerard come on the net and have sock-puppets?
It was rumored on lj that he did have a sock puppet and that he commented on stafoo. I remember astra_mandie (who was "in" with the zomg people) claiming that he even joined oihateliza, which turned out to be run by Eliza's friend's sock puppet so Eliza could collect IP addresses of people who hated her.
Don't know how true that is though.
Interesting. I wonder if he knows about this place?
I once new someone who was convinced she had spoken to him, although it was a long time ago.
Adding to that, he has said in the past that, in terms of women, the internet is 'where the intelligent species lurk'.
I guess he meant Audrey.
I'm going through an awful time with a guy who is pretty much treating me like an 'Eliza' and MCR have always been there to restore my faith and keep me strong. Now I find this place and I'm heartbroken...
How is this guy treating you like Eliza?
Do you mean he's leading you on while he has another girlfriend?
Yes
Kids can do a lot of other things, like be a part of the community. They can volunteer at homeless shelters, paint, draw, write, dress in vintage clothes, etc., etc. If I chose to dye my hair black (or blue or purple or some other unnatural color) and dress in black clothes, I would look like every other emo/goth wannabe clone out there.
I decided to become a vegetarian when I was 16. Not saying that's a huge thing, but I think it's a bigger statement than dyeing my hair.
Anonymous said...
How is this guy treating you like Eliza?
Do you mean he's leading you on while he has another girlfriend?
January 26, 2010 9:51 AM
Anonymous said...
Yes
January 26, 2010 9:55 AM
Oh, Honey. Dump his ass. Now.
Seriously, no guy is worth that kind of heartache. You're better than that and you deserve more than that.
Thankyou, that's so very sweet of you...it's just so difficult to give up when it's all I've ever wanted and I gave him so much of myself. I love who he was when we first met, when we were friends. I know I am by no means innocent and it sickens me, but I'm very naive and I feel taken advantage of. Sure Eliza was crazy but love makes you do crazy things, and I sympathise.
Why is Mikey trying to butt fuck his brother?
Waycest-ers are going to have a field day! lol
Perfectly Flawed/Pretty Damned - I remember you! You used to really piss of all the Alicia fans. It was so funny to watched because they did to you what they do to us. "YoUr Juz JeloUs!!"
What did Alicia do to you again? I remember that you met here, but I've forgotten the details.
Oh, 10:43 AM - seriously, dump him. You deserve someone who doesn't treat you like a dirty secret. Don't be an Eliza!!
Eliza deserved better than Gerard.
I think they deserved each other.
People that sneak around sound like types that cannot make a full commitment to anyone. They like to have their foot in the door. It's less risky and they have someone always around if the other one doesn't work out. Which it always does.
Is Gerard trying do his "I'm so hawt and don't you know it" look in that pic?
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Anyone still finding him attractive? He looks like a blob to me. Now, if you were talking about Gerard Butler, now that's a fucking sexy man.
11:42 and 1:16 thankyou, it's just really complicated. He always loved me first but was scared to tell me cos he thoguht I was out of his league and we had this amazing friendship. He sends me a drunken text telling me his loves me and then gets with his gf a week later. Couple of months down the line we go away together and we can't hide that we've fallen for each other. He says he's gonna do the right thing when we get back but his gf goes crazy and so he sticks with her, but keeps filling my head with broken promises...I've got myself in so deep and given him everything just in the hopes that things will change, and be like that week again. But it's been 8 months now...
Sorry everyone, you don't need to hear my life story. There's just something theraputic about talking to strangers.
@ Bleeding Chaos, Sorry to say but I’m still finding him physically attractive, if nothing else. All the new album press shots are the best he’s looked for a while. :S
Anyone still finding him attractive?
I'm finally going to say something nice about Gerard. In the NME photo, i really liked his jacket. Let me think of what else. Nope, that is it.
All the new album press shots are the best he’s looked for a while. :S
I think they've been photoshopped.
He is looking thinner, but after he loses a lot of weight he always gains it back and it seems like his middle section just gets bigger in relation to the rest of his body with every up and down of his yo-yo dieting habit.
I think his facial features are going to make him look really scary as he continues to age. He's looking more and more feminine and that's not a good thing. I'm thinking David Cassidy or (even worse) David Cassidy's father. Ever see old pictures of that guy?
*involuntary shudder*
Jack Cassidy.
He always loved me first but was scared to tell me cos he thoguht I was out of his league and we had this amazing friendship. He sends me a drunken text telling me his loves me and then gets with his gf a week later.
I'm sorry, but all of this seems like the kind of story a very narcissistic guy (or possibly one with BPD) would come up with. To them, a relationship is all about what they want and what they need. They'll tell you what they think you want to hear, whether it's true or not.
I should know. I was married to a guy like that. He was always telling me how wonderful I was...meanwhile, he was telling the girls he was having affairs with what a terrible wife I was, how I was spending all of his money, wouldn't clean the house, etc. (none of that true) so they would feel sorry for him. He'd make them think he would leave me for them when I became "stable" (only there was nothing wrong with me other than the fact that I was blind to his b.s.).
Eventually, one of his girlfriends contacted me and I discovered what he was doing and I left him.
Seriously, though. As bad as my story is, it's very common. Textbook in fact.
Don't you fall for it too.
I'm very sorry to hear your story 4:34 :( I think it's really admirable that you had the strength to leave him...I wish I could do the same, but I think it would hurt me more than it would hurt him.
I can't explain my whole situation here cos I'm sure people don't want to hear it. He was my best friend for 2 years prior to this, yes he is very arrogant, but he used to talk to me, and I don't think he was faking it. I think the way he is being with me now, is faking it. I think we both lost ourselves...
I should tell his gf, but she has friends who I am sure would kill him. And we all work together, too. I'm trying to devise a way to sort it but I'm stuck...
I can't make excuses cos the way he has treated me is sickening. I'm under no illusion, I know that he lies to me, but he doesn't really badmouth his gf and as for telling me what I want to hear...I think it's more what we both wish it could be...I KNOW he loved me.
I don't know why I'm saying all this...I just read the comments about Eliza and it hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm very sorry.
I'm sorry for your situation, 4:46. I just wish that you had enough strength and faith in yourself to realize that you don't have to put up with that kind of crap. It's just not worth it. Trust me. In the long run, you would be much better off without him.
4:49 thankyou, that means a lot. It's just too hard at the moment, I'm still holding out hope. Or planning some way to tell her...
I just don't want it to go to waste, I don't want to be on my own...I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. This guy was my first kiss, my first everything... and more than anything, I love him, I love who he was. I think the only time I'll ever leave is when I'm holding hands with someone else...I wish I had the chance to tell him how I feel, but I haven't seen him alone for 2 weeks...and he won't respond to any texts about feelings.
I'm sorry, I don't expect anyone to comment. I'm just so lost, and I can't talk to anyone.
4:59,
You're so young. You have your whole life ahead of you. You have tons and tons of time to find a relationship.
I realize this probably sounds cliche, but you really need to learn to be alone before you can really be with somebody else.
Leave this guy. If he really loves you, he'll do what he needs to get you back. If not, you really won't have lost anything.
5:13, everyone is so kind here, thankyou. I am scared to tell anyone irl for fear of being judged, I know I'm not innocent in this but I think if you knew me and my personality...well, I have just been very naive.
I know in my heart that what you say is right, and that is why it hurts to consider. I think I know he wouldn't come after me...he is very much the 'anything for an easy life' type of guy...when I threatened to speak out, he 'dumped' me, for a time. I just can't bear to see them together, to see him happy and getting away with it. He knows everything about me, he knows how special this was to me.
I've always been alone and I'm so tired...if only timing were different, we would have been so happy. 21 might seem young but I have been through so much heartache. I don't just want a realtionship, I want him...I don't want to have wasted such precious things.
He is 23 and I think he should know better than to treat women this way...
I've always been alone and I'm so tired...if only timing were different, we would have been so happy. 21 might seem young but I have been through so much heartache.
I think being 21 is too young for so much heartache. I think even though you love this guy, maybe without him, you could find happiness for yourself. Yes, it will be hard, but sometimes you have to go through heartbreak to reach the other side and finally be happy. I know it is easier said than done (i have gone through this) but with time you will find love and be treated like you deserve. Your life will go on and i bet it will be a happier one.
I know how you feel, 5:32. I've been there before. My first real boyfriend changed on me too. I stayed and stayed, expecting him to come to his senses and come back and be the guy I thought he was. But it turned out that he was never who I thought he was.
I know it's hard to lose something you held so dear. But don't feel like you've wasted anything. One day you can look back on this and see it as a learning experience.
First love rarely works out. It's not a failure if a relationship goes sour. You just have to move on.
I know what I'm saying probably doesn't help. I'm sorry, but all I can do is tell you that time does make things better.
He's looking more and more feminine and that's not a good thing. I'm thinking David Cassidy or (even worse) David Cassidy's father. Ever see old pictures of that guy?
I know you didn't just dish on my husband David Cassidy! When i in 3rd or 4th grade i was so in love with him! I even had a partrige family lunchbox to show how much in love we were. I even had their album. I think i love you....but not so much now! Ha Ha!
P.S. Gerard is gayer then David because Gerard said he gives better head than David. ^_~
I know you didn't just dish on my husband David Cassidy! When i in 3rd or 4th grade i was so in love with him!
Me too! I thought he was sooo dreamy. But then I grew up and realized that he was girlier than I was. LOL.
I wonder how many little girls will grown up and look back at their Gerard crushes and wonder what they were thinking?
Me too! I thought he was sooo dreamy. But then I grew up and realized that he was girlier than I was. LOL.
He was way prettier than me and i could never feather my hair like he could!
He was way prettier than me and i could never feather my hair like he could!
My hair wouldn't do that either. :(
I need to go through my old albums. I might be giving away my age but i got some Donny Osmond (Not mine,my sisters) Leif Garrett (Mine, eyecandy only.He was NOT a singer) and Baycity Rollers. LOL! Have anyone heard of them?
^has
OMG. The Bay City Rollers. I didn't care much for them, but my cousin was so in love. She had their posters plastered all over her wall.
And Leif Garret was so cute but WTF happened to him? Besides heroin, I mean? His looks deserted him faster than anybody I've ever seen.
faster the GW 6:46???
faster the GW 6:46???
Yeah, by the time Leif was Gerard's age he looked horrible. But then he was a teen star. Gerard was nearly thirty before anybody knew who he was.
Leif went from this to this.
Scary, huh?
Holy Crap Leif! I don't think the California sun did that. I think it was the heroin.
I've seen that photoshoot with Gerard and Mikey, Adam Lambert, Gabe Whats-his-Name and Justin Bieber all over the internet and nobody seems to be interested in Gerard or Mikey unless it's an MCR site. They're all talking about Justin and Adam.
Seriously though, what were they thinking? I thought they were trying to be more punk or metal or hardcore. Seems they just can't resist trying to be pinup boys.
And they called it... puppy loooove... My mom loved that song O-o
I'm finally going to say something nice about Gerard. In the NME photo, i really liked his jacket. Let me think of what else. Nope, that is it.
Golly gosh Lynn, you ol' flatterer. I have to agree with you, that jacket is deeply hot.
Golly gosh Lynn, you ol' flatterer. I have to agree with you, that jacket is deeply hot.
Just think how good it would have looked on somebody else.
Dunno. Maybe it's not my size. ^_^
Anyone still finding him attractive? He looks like a blob to me. Now, if you were talking about Gerard Butler, now that's a fucking sexy man.
Gerard Butler...his thighs...
*sighs*
"For me, wearing black is just what I've always liked. I went to art school. That's what you do in art school -- wear black and listen to Joy Division."
Why doesn't he stop with the art skewl thing already?
Dude, you went to art skewl, like, more than ten years ago. Things change. Most of the artsy types I know avoid the Emo/Goth look like the plague and they don't listen to Joy Division anymore.
Gerard Butler may have a pudgy face but I can't help but find him attractive.
I can't find anything concrete saying that Eliza was one of only 13 people from Chicago to get a golden ticket. If she was booted out after auditioning for the judges then why is she saying she has to be all hush hush about it? Makes no sense. Someone told me that all AI golden ticket contestants up to now are posted on the site and her name is not among the list. I'm starting to believe she really is crazy.
Thankyou Lynn and 5:52 for being very sweet and sharing your own stories. :) I don't know where I'm gonna go from here I just know things have to change...
Anyways, I'll shh about it now, just wanted to say thankyou to everyone who has offered advice and support, it really has meant a lot. x
I know alot of people that tried out for AI said the camera crews were all over Eliza and they filmed her audition from all different angles. When they showed the auditions from Chicago round, you got to see all of about 3 sec of Eliza. In her blog she said they gave her good advice and she started voice lessons(hear that Gerard)? I was beginning to think she didn't make it, but did? They gave 13 golden tickets away in the chicago auditions but i wasn't paying attention, so i don't know how many they gave away and to who. Maybe she did and they are saving the footage of her for later.
I don't know where I'm gonna go from here I just know things have to change...
Good luck. I wish you happiness no matter what happens :)
http://americanbuzz.net/eliza-siep-cuts-american-idol/
Lol, check out the comments. I think it's all a bit weird myself. Why choose HER to plant?
If I were the people commenting on that forum I would be a bit more careful of what I said.
These stupid fangirls do not "know" as much as they think they do. They are repeating rumors and speculation as though it were fact. Eliza "did" this and she "is" that (whore, groupie, etc.) when they can't back any of that up. If Eliza were to decide to push it she'd probably have grounds for a lawsuit.
RB says:
January 20, 2010 at 8:52 am
OMG….Eliza. Eliza is a groupie who blew her way through the Warped Tour. Literally. She’s one crazy chick who will do ANYTHING for attention. If you don’t believe me, check out her episode on Blind Date. She’s certified nuts and her “engagement” to Gerard Way was in her own head. She even made up a myspace page for Gerard before she met him and had conversations with herself. She speculated that she had a relationship with him before she’d ever met him. In case you didn’t notice, he dropped her like a hot potato. She also makes up usernames and talks about herself on forums which, I’m guessing she did on this one. Eliza knows better than to talk about her past “relationship”. It’s called lawyers for Gerard Way.
Maybe RB should be thinking about lawyers for herself. Good grief.
I don't really see what the fangirls think they have to gain by posting that Blind Date video for the world to see. A lot of those people from AI maybe haven't even heard of Gerard and this will be the first impression they have of him, that he went out with that crazy chick from Blind Date. Yeah. Way to make your idol Gerard look like a tool.
Gerard doesn't need any help to look like a tool. He does just fine all by himself.
. Eliza knows better than to talk about her past “relationship”. It’s called lawyers for Gerard Way.
Why can't she talk about her relationship with Gerard? Is it really slander? The only thing i've heard her say about Gerard was that he was very talented in bed.That should be against the law because that image in my head is NOT good for my mental well being.
The only thing i've heard her say about Gerard was that he was very talented in bed.That should be against the law because that image in my head is NOT good for my mental well being.
I'd be willing to bet that if Eliza said that under oath she'd be committing perjury.
The only thing i've heard her say about Gerard was that he was very talented in bed.
Oh really? Sounds like he went out of his way to please his little obsessive pal, oops, former fiancée.
because she lied to my friend sam telling her that i was trying to fuck her.
hell, i would have admitted it if i was true, but it wasnt. sam freaked out and it almost ruined my friendship. then eliza pulled her ultra-aggressive defensive tactic and tried turning shit around and making me feel as if her talking shit was my fault.
then lied and said that i was trying to fuck her as well, as if she never called me professing her love for me while i was on tour and trying to convince me to break up with lindsie, to which i said thank you but no thank you. i have a feeling she was bummed that i didnt respond the way she expected.
oh, then there was the time she outright snubbed me at j.rones bday party.
eh, eff her.
^^This was on page 14 of askheychris' q&a on lj when someone asked why he and Eliza aren't friends anymore. Interesting girl.
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